How to Handle Tantrums in a Positive Way Tantrums are a common source of frustration for parents of toddlers and young children. They can be aggravating, draining, and humiliating, especially when they occur in public. Tantrums, on the other hand, are a normal aspect of child development and can be used to teach your child essential skills and values. In this blog post, we will look at what causes tantrums, how to avoid them, and how to deal with them in a constructive way. What exactly are tantrums, and why do they occur? A tantrum is a sudden burst of intense emotion expressed by a child through sobbing, yelling, kicking, hitting, or throwing objects. Tantrums typically occur when a child is upset, angry, terrified, sleepy, hungry, or overwhelmed by a situation over which he or she has little control or ability to deal. For example, a child may throw a temper tantrum if: They want something that is not permitted or obtainable. They are asked to do something they do not wish to ...